+1 on the sidi. I am an 11 wide and the sidi are good with me (a tad snug, but they break in well). I'm am not a fan of my fathers joe rockets (we wear the same size) they just fit sloppy (really loose in some areas and tight in others). :twocentsI am almost your boot size... brother!
Sidi and Gaerne always did for me.
Sidi is always a slightly confier fit while Gaerne is slightly tighter.