first of all your gonna get a zillion different opinions on oils cause it all comes down to preference...i used motuls but have heard great things about mobile 1
as far as pads go...HRC hands down are the BEST pads around but be ready to drop about $100...i have the soft bite and let me tell ya how amazing they are!!! (hard bits are also produced)
as far as brake fluid goes...that is a must i changed my with ATE SUPER BLUE RACING FLUID DOT4 and let me tell ya what a HUGE difference it made...i even had to change my brake lever from level 1 to level 2 cause it would bit so hard
basically ive had great results with the products i listed above and i think that you would too
ps. check out the search button as well...it works wonders