<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD>Quote, originally posted by cdansan »
</TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">.... i'm sure your wife does too. find out the right way to approach a woman, and you will be set. until you screw it up some other way.</TD></TR></TABLE>
well your "the other way" usually happens, and then you continue to learn
the other non-macho guy theme is- does she realize the importance of this hobby to me?
but then the questions we forget to ask ourselves out of lust
does is hurt my family or our future goals?
Will she continue to build up resentment- as i continue t fullfill my needs and she has not / or has not yet defined (what those are for her in her own mind and started making it "real" / she has lost her initial interests (but they need found)
if any of these are true....she feels it ...whether or not she expresses it...it may be an argument tomorrow, next month, OR NO SEX.......or Divorce- ouch- oh that was me...sorry