Oh, that sounds like a sick list of parts mate. Really nice. I would have done heads before some other things but then, each to his own.
How much did the Sil Motor exhaust set you back? I am aiming for some winter mods which are gonna give more power. Therefore I might require a larger exhaust.
As far as handling goes, what have you done so far?
I personally think that my bike handles like a dream compared to all other Ducatis I have owned. I think the key is a light front wheel (magnesium or carbon fibre) and proper geometry settings. I first got into the magnesium front wheel thing with my 999r which had one when I bought it. It was amazing. I wouldn´t want to miss out on one. It certainly helps a lot. The less offset triples help a bit, but the difference is not as big as it is with the mag wheel. Setting rear ride height is going to make a good difference again. If you got these three things sorted out, you should be in Ducati heaven. At least at the front doof